Divorced Dad Dispatches

I made a lot of mistakes during my marriage. But the mistakes that still keep me up at night are the ones I made during my divorce.

I was married for ten years and three months – a “marriage of long duration,” as it’s called in California – after living in sin with my wife for two years before tyi...


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Physical Custody Today – The Art of Sharing

What does child custody look like in a separation/divorce scenario these days?

Obviously, this question must be answered on a case by case basis. Take a look at your kids, their ages, their specific issues and interests. Look at your spouse/co-parent, each of your living situations, career obligat...


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5 Factors Courts Consider in Child Custody Matters

You've decided that divorce is either your best option or a strong possibility, but you're worried about how it may affect your relationship and time spent with your children. Divorce is a significant life event, and it's normal to feel nervous and unsure during this time, especially when there are ...


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How to Tell the Children About Divorce

One of the hardest things a parent must do while going through a divorce is telling their children.

It can be an emotional time period and a highly-charged conversation. Once you and your current spouse have made the decision to move forward with the divorce, it is important to tell the news to yo...


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A Kid’s Guide to Divorce

Your kids, no matter what age, are going to struggle with the new change in their life following the divorce of their parents. Even if it will be better for them in the future, your divorce will be a hard transition. It is important to remind them that they have rights and responsibilities throughou...


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