Filing an Online Divorce: The 4 Most Common Questions

Arriving at the decision to initiate a divorce can take some time.  As you consider your options, we want you to know what’s ahead of you.


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Three Simple Ingredients to Make a Great Dinner for Your Kids

I am @divorcedadoescooking with three simple ingredients coparenting dads can grab from almost any supermarket to make a great home cooked meal for you and your kids


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How to Evaluate and Choose a Divorce Mediator

If you’ve decided that mediation is how you’d like to get your divorce resolved, the next step is selecting the mediator.  Here are some tips on things to think about in making that selection:


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New York Domestic Relations Law and Advisory Schedules

Written for it’s over easy by New York Attorney Alyssa Rower, Esq.

Ms. Rower illuminates for our it’s over easy readers the ways in which New York Matrimonial Courts might determine temporary spousal maintenance and post judgement spousal maintenance.

Two of the most urgent questions facing the parties to a divorce concern support (aka “alimony” or “maintenance”):

  1. “I haven’t worked in 15 years; how am I going to make it on my own?”
  2. “My spouse hasn’t worked in 15 years; I’ve been the sole wage earner; do I have to pay support and, if so, for how long?”

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Starting Over After Divorce: How to Love Again

Over the past couple years I have interviewed over a hundred people for The Divorce Dress project, most of which tell me it was a cathartic experience for them.

As one of the authors of The Divorce Dress, I found it fitting to share my own story. It was not easy to get to this place, because it meant resurfacing all the pain I had felt. But I realized, how can I ask all these people to bare their souls to me, if I am not willing to do the same. The Divorce Dress has become an outlet for people to share their stories, support each other, offer resources, and heal. We laugh, we cry and we...


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